Have a POD – Point Of Difference, rather than trying to be yet another green pea, which is very boring and takes a lot of effort. Just be happy expressing the beautiful colourful pea you are. Each colour in its purest and unique form is needed to create the spectrum of light. So too it is with people. We need all sorts, with all of their colourful personalities, looks and capabilities to live, learn, grow and find harmony. You are perfect as you are and you would do others and yourself a disfavour to be different to who you REALLY are. How are you different and unique? How can you love that in you?