Do you think women say that want to be in love, but truthfully they don’t really want love, relationship and intimacy and what that takes, or they’ve simply given up on “finding or falling in love”? Seems ironic but I start to wonder sometimes. So a question to you:
What is the hardest thing about being in love or considering a loving relationship again? This can be an observation about others – your girlfriends, female family members, colleague… or of course your own valuable experience and opinion.
Here a few of my ideas as starters.
- Women struggle often with loving their body, so how the hang do they feel comfortable sharing it in a more intimate relationship?
- Love requires time and presence. Many women are simply too busy and stressed and prioritise other things.
- Many women settle for second best and tolerate that kind of relationship. Not a great rock to sit on and it’s often the rock that stays in the way of finding an awesome relationship/partner/love experience that you would really feel excited by.
- Social media and dating sites set up a “you’re for me or not for me” game where you feel like you’re a number to be judged and :”flicked off”. It’s often debilitating and it’s easier hiding in the four walls.
- Being in an authentic relationship is not always easy. Having honest open discussions can bring up all sorts of stuff to look at in yourself. Relationships are not for the feint-hearted.
What else ladies? And gentlemen?